About Me

Hello my name is Lisa, and I am a borderline. I wasn't aware of this until I was 36 years old, when I was diagnosed. When I found out, I had no clue what BPD was, and I had even studied psychology in college. A few years ago, I was watching TikTok videos and learning about BPD. I would see a video on borderline that was really good, but the good videos were few and far apart. I thought, wouldn't it be nice to have one page, with only the best videos in one place. I started borderline life. I wanted the videos that helped others understand not only what BPD feels like but also the history, the symptoms, comorbidities and the effective treatments. This was an effort to help neurotypical people understand why we behave the way we do. With understanding comes compassion. 

I have impacted so many people who relate to my content, and others wanting to learn, so they can better support a loved one. I'm learning so many undocumented things. Borderlines are 1.6 to 5% of the population. Before they had a place to come together, we didn't know nearly as much as we have learned by coming together. Many of the things we experience, we don't talk about. We feel like it will make those around us uncomfortable, or nobody wants to hear it or there are things we don't admit out of fear that people will think we're crazy.I have put out so many posts that people experienced and didn't know it was a thing borderline's experienced, until they saw my video and read the comments. So it's been fun giving people a place to learn and help their family understand.